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In alignment with our mission to explore desire in a polyamorous, queer and trans* context, Authentic Queer Desires is hosting Wanton Wands of Wonder, a queer and trans-oriented sacred kink & sex party where you can explore Queer Desire, sensuality, and sex within a witchy container devoted to the Goddess Aphrodite.

  • Our event takes place in Olympia, WA and requires a phone screening, please fill out the form below and we will reach out to you to schedule. Please arrive on time, as we will be creating the magickal container at 4pm and the doors will close at that time. Explicit verbal consent is expected for all engagement with others. Practice making requests and practice your consent skills!

    2024 Rituals:
    Samhain: Sat 11/9 3pm

    2025 Rituals:
    Imbolc: Sat 2/1 3pm
    Ostara: Sat 3/15 3pm
    Beltane: Sat 5/24 3pm

What are Wanton Wands of Wonder?
Wanton refers to being sexually unrestrained, having casual sexual relationships, and (most importantly) to frolic and play. May your sexuality, your kinks, your desires come forward to be known and witnessed!
Wands include all sort of magickal and sexual implements: athames, dildos, floggers, slappers, butt plugs, cocks, cunts, pussies, truly your imagination is the only limit here!
Wonder indicates a feeling of curiosity and desire. We use the acronym COAL, which comes from the interpersonal neurobiology work of Dan Siegel, and stands for Curious, Open, Accepting, and Loving. Your curiosity, sexuality, and desires are welcome here.

Covid-19 vaccination is not required but, if you are not vaccinated, please take a rapid test before you arrive and be able to show us the results.

We ask for contributions of $10-50 sliding scale but NOTAFLOF (No One Turned Away for Lack of Funds). Please fill out the form below if interested and we will contact you with more details, including location.