ABOUT ME

My own journey began in texan suburbia, where I tried to eke out a meager existence as a queer neurospicy kiddo (not that I knew either of these were true about me at the time) and was met with abuse, ridicule, and punishment just for simply existing. So I learned to mask and hide. If I made myself as small as possible, then maybe I could avoid the emotional and physical assaults. I felt unworthy of social connection and love.

This turned into a young adulthood filled with themes of avoiding taking up space, retreating into online/digital worlds, and dissociating from my wants, desires, and authentic self. I tried to be the “normal” person everybody was looking for me to be and in the process, I lost any trace of who I actually was.

Through the power of sex magick, psychedelics, and some very wise teachers, I learned how to center myself again and re-discover the microcosm of my authenticity. I still have the feelings of shame and fear; yet they no longer control me. And I learned how to connect with my wants and desires in a way that felt empowering and I started to experience self-confidence. I gained the ability to be with my fears and to focus my life on the things that I want to be doing: one of which is supporting others on their embodied sexuality journeys through queerness, transness, and/or neurodivergence/neuroemergence!

My own journey with queerness, neurodiversity, and gender exploration allows me to connect in a unique and deep way and guide you along your own path. I am dedicated to empowering queer and trans* edgewalkers with the tools and resilience to know their sexual selves and desires and to be able to communicate their desires with others. I work with magick, breath, and resonance to create sexual sovereignty with a trauma-informed lens.